Men often say the same thing about me all the time when I ask about how they feel about me, "I mean...You Cool."
This is a tell tell sign that said man has no intention on taking me seriously. 🐸☕
So, when I cut them off, or cut off my feelings that I initially have for them I don't feel bad. They deserve ever cold shoulder that I give. (You wanna waste my time why can't I return the favor? You know that good old 'tit for tat' every man hates after they initiated the 'tit' in order for me to even be able to 'tat' 😕 😂)
I feel as though there is no point in using my emotions when dealing with men. They NEVER feel anything back in regards to a Plain Jane like me in a era full of bad bitches anyway. I just don't fit in. And you know, I'm okay with that.
But, what I'm not okay with is men not knowing what THEY PERSONALLY want and deciding to be attracted to whatever the next guy is attracted to. First it was white, then light skinned, then skinny, then thick, then bbw, now its conscious females. Like, isn't that supposed to be a "manly quality" the ability to lead and make decisions..guess that could be why those are boys and not men.
However, in this era there is a pathetic cycle of indecisive manboys that only want what others/they homies got. Basically, they want what's trending on social media just like the females that they claim are "gold diggers". Well I guess that makes them soul diggers (new phrase!!) then.
SOUL DIGGER (Master Level Fuckboy): male equivalent of a gold digger; however, a kin to the Fuckboy, the soul digger is only there to make you "feel" wanted just enough to keep slowly taking parts of the woman's soul that he is pursuing for the time being. These men use their prey/mate/partner as an emotional/egotistical crutch until they find better. Much like the gold digger the soul digger wants what they want and will use the lover at their expense.
Gold diggers want money and every material thing while soul diggers want to know everything that is you. They endure this process of "getting to know you inside and out and taking things slowly" in order to better manipulate without the lover getting suspicious of their insincerity.
Soul diggers tend to go after the person with the inner light about themselves and are very understanding, I.e. Empaths. They're easy prey because they always "understand", no matter what bullshit excuse the soul digger throws their way even after being let down time and time again.
-Makeda Meraki
