Someone asked me; so, here are my thoughts:
I understand that the Lord asked you to forgive, but he didn't say be naive.
He asked you to love but he asked BOTH to vow that it was til death do you part.
One half of this contract that the two have made has become null and void when one side decides to step out of their marriage to seek love, attention, emotional affection, or physical affection.
Those things, you seek at home with your spouse/family.
I feel as though the one doing all the cheating no longer has respect for their spouse nor the bond that they have through christ.
And at that point it is solely up to the one being cheated on to know that their heart has had enough pain throughout all their loyalty.
God asked us to love, not until it hurts.
Because love, and his grace DOES NOT HURT.
A marriage should be the place where you feel almost the safest.
You should be able to tell your spouse anything, especially how you feel.
There should never be a reason that you and your spouse aren't on the same page bc you're a team.
A team graced with the glory of God that has bonded the two together.
I feel that at the end of the day if there's no love and loyalty being reciprocated that you should be able to voice that and also be able to tell them you're tired of it.
You should be able to tell your husband or wife anything. To me, they should be your everyday confessional booth.
There should be no judgement only love and support.
And if YOU messed up, you should be woman enough or man enough to tell them and own up to giving them that option to refuse being lied to our cheated on bc you gave yourself the option to do the lying or cheating.
That's just my opinion. =)
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